Here’s the thing, when a man is not that into you, he will show it. They will not say it because a huge chunk of them are poor communicators but they will for sure throw hints knowingly or unknowingly.
Many women will for sure note the signs but remain in denial or battle with uncertainty. This mostly caused by accusations of being too needy, clingy or overreacting.
These claims leave many women confused and conflicted with their intuition about what is happening.
How about we help clear any doubt with signs you should be on the lookout for. Let’s talk signs and the flags. Both red and pink.
They’ll flat out say it
That’s it, they will tell you to your face that they aren’t that into you. It might sound like, I am on a journey right now or I am not looking for anything serious or life’s too crazy right now or plain old, I hope you know that this means nothing.
If they drop these somewhat vague statements then pack up because that’s your cue to exist stage or adjust your expectations.
He will not introduce you to anyone
This guy will dodge opportunities that provide space to meet his friends or family. You will not be invited to the graduation, dinner or catch up with cousins at a local. He will make weird excuses about it or simply tell you he’s not ready to introduce you.
Talks about other women
They will tell you stories of a hot girl in the office or one they saw at a club. He will genuinely not see any problem discussing other women with you because he is not trying to make you his.
He is inconsistent
Here a man’s actions fluctuate regularly. One time you will be certain about how he feels. He will say it and act like it. Then, this will be followed by aloof behavior that will make you question everything he said and did the week before.
You are the sole initiator
Normally, when you’re into someone, there is an irresistible urge to text, call and make plans with them. So, if they are not matching your energy, you need to re-think your plan about the relationship.
You are googling signs a guy is not into you
If you are googling this stuff, then this is your sign friend, he is not. A guy who’s into you will reassure you not only with words but actions. These questions, searches and worrying is a clear sign that your concerns are legit.
Your friends will tell you
Most times, these guys will make you feel uncertain and conflicted about the relationship. You will speak to your friends about it and one ballsy one will tell you the truth. Believe them because they are not hazy from good loving and bum rubs.
It is hard to say goodbye to a man you are head over heels for but you need to put yourself first. Turning a blind eye to these signs only makes matters worse and leads to a painful heartbreak.
