Sex is supposed to be fun, exciting and pleasurable.
Whether it’s a one-night stand or a casual get-together, the experience ought to be ecstatic and to some extent refreshing. It’s the toe-curling, shivers, shudders, and groans that epitomize the experience.
However, as exciting as it all sounds, many women don’t experience orgasms. The causes can be both psychological and physical.
With that said, here are some reasons preventing you from having your mind blown during sex.
Overthinking
Here’s a cute, hot situation that holds such great promise. Everything is going so well until the voices in your head awaken and give you 55 reasons why it might go south.
They could be valid reasons like the kind of undies you have on, when your last wax was, or some stretch marks. However, these don’t truly matter. The objective is the same, which is to have a good time. Focus on that and just go with the flow.
The person
Sometimes what is hindering your climax is because you don’t like the guy you are with as much. Attraction mainly works for guys whereas women will need a little more emotion to get things going. You’ll find that the more you like someone, the more it is easy for you to enjoy being with them hence leading you to the big O.
Closed mindedness
Due to past experiences, it is easy to get into bed with pre-conceived notions of what could make you tick. However, there is a downside to this when there is no wiggle room to allow for a new experience. Going in with an open mind might just be your kryptonite. Of course, be vocal about what you are not comfortable with. But you will never know if you don’t try.
Quiet the noise in your head and stay calm. Pump yourself up every day through affirmations, taking cute photos, and even dressing up in clothes you feel prettiest in. Let go and give in to the pleasure.
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