Love is one of the most dwelled on topics, and one might say the trickiest. These days, love may come as quickly as a quick text or a short phone call, and boom, you’re in love.
Mostly driven by social urges from social media and peers to be like everyone and do everything they see, Gen Z’s take the concept of love so lightly. They want a person who will make them look good on social media, to be touched, to fill the void the parents left, and of course, sexual interactions.
Gen Z is any person born between the year 1997 to 2012. They are the tech-savvy, extravagant, and all-rounded age group that seems to be taking over the world one step at a time.
Here are some of the reasons why Gen Z relationships don’t last.
Lack of communication: Many Gen Zers have grown up in a digital age, where they may rely heavily on social media and texting to communicate with their partners. However, this can often lead to misunderstandings, miscommunications, and lack of meaningful conversations.
Unrealistic expectations: Social media, movies, and TV shows often portray idealized versions of relationships, leading to unrealistic expectations of what a healthy relationship should look like. When reality doesn’t match these expectations, some Gen Zers may become disillusioned and give up on the relationship.
Fear of commitment: Many Gen Zers have grown up in a culture where “hooking up” and casual dating are more common than long-term commitments. This can make it harder for some to commit to a serious relationship and can lead to a lack of investment in the relationship.
FOMO (Fear of Missing Out): Social media has made it easier than ever for individuals to connect with others and explore different options for relationships. This can lead to a sense of FOMO, making it difficult for some Gen Zers to fully invest in their current relationship.
Lack of emotional maturity: Many Gen Zers are still in the process of developing emotional maturity and may not yet have the skills to navigate the challenges that come with long-term relationships.
So, what’s next for this upcoming age group? Will they figure it out, or will this be another endless loop of divorces and marital problems?
